Passion Island
Passion Island

By Tana Marie

Secrets For Creating Your Perfect Relationship


• The past is to be learned from, not dwelled upon.

• The best relationships are built on realistic knowledge of your partner's past, coupled with well-developed, mutual goals & a healthy optimism regarding your future together.

• The baggage of the past must be eliminated to insure your new partner is not punished for the sins of others who came before.

• It is important to choose behaviors that are supportive of the type of relationship you truly want.

• Insanity is doing the same thing, in the same way, & expecting a different result. If it hasn't worked before, it WON'T work now!

• Destructive attitudes & behaviors must be recognized, healed & eliminated.

• Most people are more afraid of manifesting what they desire, then never receiving what they want. For instance, the fear of success is more powerful than the fear of failure.

• No individual should be expected to pay for the sins of others; start with a clean slate & always give your partner the benefit of the doubt. Remember – Innocent until proven guilty!

• Correct relationship failures & replicate the successes - find a positive Role Model if necessary.

• If someone tells you they're not good enough for you, has trouble with commitments, don't know how to love, or that they could never measure up - BELIEVE THEM! DON'T think you will be their savior – it won't work!

• Select the ideal person for you from the BEGINNING – don't find a "Good Project," "Damaged Goods," or "Drama King or Queen" and try to re-make them into someone you want to be with. You deserve to be happy, so don't look for a broken person to fix – you will always lose in the end!

These tips are excerpts from: "Isle of Fantasies: Secrets for Creating the Love of Your Life" by Tana Marie & Robert Misrack *Our book is available here on the website in the "Online Catalog" section.


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