Believe it or not, one of the most difficult elements I find
in relationships is the ability for couples to communicate
their sexual needs and desires to one another. You might think
this is a no-brainer, but it really isn't. Regardless of how
long two people have been together, letting their partner know
honestly how they feel and what their sexual needs are is a
huge issue in most relationships.
SOOOO let me make it easy for you. I'd like to introduce my
Sexual Interest/Disinterest Scale.
Picture a scale from 0 – 5.
Zero means: "I have no interest whatsoever, don't you dare
touch me!"
5 means: "I'm hot and ready. Let's go!"
The other numbers in between represent varying degrees of
interest.
0 = I have no interest whatsoever. Don't you dare touch me!
1 = Not now, I'm just not in the mood. Take a Rain Check!
2 = I'd like to, I just don't know if I am up to it. Entice
me!
3 = Can't right now, but let's get together later. Meet me!
4 = Sounds great, I'm interested, just not turned on right
now. Arouse me!
5 = I'm hot and ready. Let's go!
Use this scale as your own private language any time you want
to let your partner know EXACTLY where you are at any time.
Call them up at the office and say, "Honey, I'm at a 4, and by
the time you're home, I'll be at a 5!!" Believe me, you will
be the ONLY thing they think about all day long!
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