Passion Island
Passion Island
Romance Column
By Tana Marie

It doesn't matter how much you love someone, it's who you are when you're with them.


"It doesn’t matter how much you love someone, it’s
who you are when you’re with them." Illuminations

One of the best indications that you’re involved with the best person for you is to assess how you feel about yourself when you’re with them."

  • Do you feel strong, confident and secure about yourself, or do you feel tentative or inferior around them?"

  • Are you happy with your behavior and general attitude, or do you feel angry, nervous or act out of character?"

  • Do you feel comfortable, secure and authentic, or do you "walk on eggs" around them, are afraid to communicate or overly try to please them?"

  • Do you strive to be the best person you can be, or do you feel you have to hide who you truly are – your intelligence, talents, strengths?"

  • Do you feel physically attractive, sexy and desirable or get the feeling that you’ll never be "enuf" to satisfy them?"

If you don’t feel you’re your best self within any relationship, regardless of how much you love the person, do the most loving thing you can do for yourself and move on to an authentic, healthy relationship - one in which you can truly shine! If you don’t – no one wins!



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