Passion Island
Passion Island

By Tana Marie

Love Isn't Just About Valentine's Day


Well, you make it through the "Big Love Day." How did you do?

For some, it was THE BEST time they ever had, for others, it was "just another day" and for many, it was a day filled with loneliness and pain. Society has placed such importance on this day, that it definitely shines a huge spotlight on your relationship, or lack of one. Use this to honestly assess where you are regarding love and romance.

If you're in a Long Term Relationship, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Am I REALLY happy with my mate?

  • What do I Want and Need in order to be completely happy?

  • What things would I like to see Changed?

  • Am I with the BEST person for me?

If you're in a New Relationship, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Apart from the obvious Chemistry, do we have enough In Common to sustain a long-term relationship?

  • Does my new partner Treat me Well?

  • Do they show me Love, Attention, Appreciation and Kindness?

  • Am I Comfortable with them?

  • Can I see myself Growing Old with this person?

If you're currently Single, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Am I Truly Ready for a Monogamous, Committed relationship?

  • Or, am I Happier Right now Being Single and Dating new people?

  • Do I have any Fears, Judgments or Pain regarding long-term love relationships that have been stopping me from finding the right one?

  • Am I "Too set in my ways" to easily allow someone into my life?

  • Is there "Room" in my life for a partner? (Space in terms of Time allowance, Emotional readiness, Physical wellbeing and Spiritual openness.)
    Once you ask yourself these questions, listen for your heart to answer, and make your game plan based on those answers. You'll have a much more fulfilling relationship, regardless of where you are now.



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